I learned that just disciplining your children’s negative behavior physically is not the answer. I tried that and I failed, then I began to fall on my face and address the issue’s spiritually and the results was that God saved and delivered my son! In Mark 4: 35-41 Jesus and His disciples were in a storm, Jesus rebukes the wind but speaks to the waves (peace be still). The problem was the wind not the waves, the waves were only reacting to the wind! Deal with the root of the problem!